Happy Holidays
Khalil A. Rahsheed
This time of year reminds me of the holiday season a year ago, and a class I took and its instructor. We were discussing the etiquette of holiday greetings. Our instructor informed the class that he felt displeasure and insult when greeted with the phrase “happy holidays”; yet felt that it was perfectly acceptable for him to greet everyone with Merry Christmas whether they celebrated the holiday or not. His attitude seemed to me to be inconsiderate and hypocritical. Saying Merry Christmas is no different than saying Merry Christian Holy Day. The instructor said he really just wanted everyone to experience the real Christmas spirit.
At this point I began to wonder if he was sincere or was only attempting to encourage debate. I explained that I had never celebrated Christmas my entire life and was not a Christian, but thought it polite to respond to those who greeted me with Merry Christmas, with happy holidays. While Merry Christmas directly references Christian Theology, happy holidays simply encourages everyone to enjoy their respective holidays in a happy manner whatever those holy days may be. I still don’t understand his stance. Was he implying that since he indeed has the correct religious perspective that any other greeting other than Merry Christmas during this holy day season would be blasphemous or sacrilegious?
The instructor asked me if I felt insulted being wished a Merry Christmas? I responded that ‘for the most part’ I didn’t any longer feel insult or injury with the greeting, but that rarely I did. When I have family or acquaintances who have known me for decades, some of whom have known me and my viewpoints for my lifetime, and they insist on wishing me a Merry Christmas, I believe insult or injury is intended. At the end of the course the instructor wished everyone a Merry Christmas and I wished him a happy holidays. I suppose you could say we agreed to disagree. What do you think?